Hey its Victoria. And yes I'm bitching again today.
A few days ago at school I heard some girls talking about how fat they thought they were in the lunch line. Now I know these girls, but I wont say there names in respect to them. But these girls (like all girls at school) get on my nerves.
Now I did not create this blog to bash on girls. Because I am a girl. But some topics that bother me happen to involve girls. And I feel that this topic is important. So it's time once again to be honest.
The first thing that I am going to say to all you girls out there is: GET A GRIP.
There is no such thing as being fat. People say that weight matters in this day and age. People think that if your not lighter than a pencil or thinner than a piece of paper you aren't worth talking to. I use to not believe that until one experience with a friend of mine. I went with her to a interview at the mall. She was applying at Gilly Hicks. Now for the record Gilly Hicks is absolutely awesome. Even after the experience there, the friend and I still shop there. But anyway; she went in for an interview and was criticized by an employee (BEFORE the interview) about her weight. It wasn't a direct comment. She just heard the comment being made as she walked away. And I heard it too. She then decided to just walk out. Now my friend isn't skinny.She isn't fat. She is curvy and gorgeous. And she let a comment like that stop her from achieving a goal. And that just isn't right in my book.
For starters. You can be skinny, average, or curvy. Just don't let anyone treat you like garbage. Keep your head up and treat yourself with respect. Your body is your temple and the only person that can destroy that temple is you. That is why you must practice being confident. When a girl or a guy says something that makes you feel less of yourself just brush it off no matter what they say. Because they are just people. And words should not matter. And what exactly are they gaining from it? Nothing. If you force yourself to believe that no one can bring you down. Then no one can. All they can do is talk. And talking means nothing.
The word fat is mostly used when referring to someone's weight. But in my opinion that word should not even exist in a person's vocabulary. Especially a woman's. Not to bash on us. But we do kind of make a big deal out of things.
All I'm saying is that we all need to look beyond certain things in life. We are all beautiful people. So let's look beyond our weight and other physical appearances. Because because beauty is ONLY skin deep. :)
This is Victoria. And I have been honest. I mean, I cant lie.
Guys you can take this how ever you want.
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